Holiday Worship Schedule
Midweek Advent Services
12/3, 12/10, and 12/17
7 pm
Preceded by soup supper at 5:45 pm
Our midweek Advent services are on Wednesday nights. Meals are at 5:45PM, organized by various FOG ministries. After that, we gather for Holden Evening Prayer at 7PM. These evenings are a wonderful chance to enjoy each other’s company, to sing, and to hear the gospel. This year, our theme for our midweek sermons is angels.
Blue Christmas
December 21
7 pm
Last year was FOG’s first Blue Christmas. This is a worship service especially for those having a difficult time during the holidays. Our congregation has experienced a number of deaths this year, so I hope those of us who need comfort will find some during this service. Blue Christmas will take place at 7PM on 12/21, which is also the solstice and darkest day of the year.
Christmas Eve Services
December 24
4 pm and 10:30 pm
Join us at 4pm or 10:30pm for special music, the Christmas story, candlelit hymns, and more. A blessed Advent and Christmas to you and your loved ones!
Weekly Advent services beginning December 3. Wednesday nights at 7 pm using the Holden Evening prayer.
Weekly Advent services on Sunday mornings at 9:30 am.
Brooklyn Big Band with festive music of the season. Saturday, December 13 at 3:00 pm. Free admission.
FOG Children’s Christmas program during worship on December 14 at 9:30 am.
Blue Christmas Sunday, December 21 at 7:00 pm.
Brooklyn Community Band with festive music of the season Monday, December 22 at 7:00 pm. Free admission.
Christmas Eve services December 24 at 4 pm and 10:30 pm. New this year, beginning at 10:00 pm, a 30 minute prelude of music.
Sunday Worship
9:30 am
In-person and
Live-streamed on YouTube
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- go to our YouTube channel
- click on "Live" on the horizontal menu, and select the video you wish to view. Typically the Sunday livestream will say "Upcoming" if you go to the channel prior to the start time.
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A Message From Pastor Paul
December 2025 Newsletter
With our November snow storm and cold snap, it began to look a lot like Christmas even earlier this year. Kroger is a giant grocery store chain in the south with 2700 stores. These stores will be open on Thanksgiving Day, and no doubt it will be the same at Christmas. This is great if you need some more cranberry sauce or an extra pie, but I am glad I don’t work there.
There are several ways to think about the issues of changing cultural mores regarding the winter holidays.
One is to bemoan the fact that it isn't the way it used to be. Thanksgiving was sacrosanct, so was Christmas Day (even for Scrooge), and no one would dream of opening stories and violating the spirit of the day. If only legislators and companies would find a way to forge an agreement and agree on common sense rules for keeping employees home and giving everyone an appropriate day off.
Another approach is to see that this is actually good for our economy. The growth of e-commerce has been so difficult on bricks and mortor stores they need to find any edge they can to compete and make their sales targets for the year. A successful Black Friday or after Christmas sale actually helps to employ people and improve their lives by offering employment, which is good for everyone. Adding another open day or two can make or break their bottom line.
A third approach is to see that the old informal alliance between government, commerce, and the church have eroded away. During much of the 19th century and long before, these three pillars of society worked together to maintain certain standards regarding holidays and other long held practices. Since we live now in a post-Christian world, where religious faith are no longer given a significant voice or preference in culture, government, or the marketplace, it is too much to expect that it can ever be the way it was again.
No one forces us to go shopping on Thanksgiving Day or Christmas Day. The marketplace is very responsive to demand. Even if my little choice to not shop then has little effect on the masses of consumers, it still doesn't have to affect me. I can stay home and enjoy Thanksgiving and Christmas with no pressure to go out and be the first in line to get a deal after the holiday dinner.
Living in a post Christian world is actually more like the ancient church of the Book of Acts and the first several centuries which followed the birth, death, and resurrection of Christ. And somehow the Church survived. Perhaps it became even stronger, because the message of Jesus was no longer convoluted and watered down by the forces of culture who had other priorities.
At best, living in a post Christian culture helps us to focus on what's really important this time of year. There are many things to like and treasure, like meals, family time, a day off, gift giving, football, family games, great desserts, lights and trees, seasonal songs, snow, and yes, Christmas worship.
The best treasure of all is our Lord Jesus Christ, made flesh at Christmas, to become a servant, live the lives we do, show us the way God always intended for us, and to accomplish our eternal salvation.
“Sacred infant, all divine,
What a tender love was thine,
Thus to come from highest bliss
Down to such a world as this."

A Message From Pastor Erin
December 2025 Newsletter
Greetings to everyone at Family of God —
We are officially getting ready for Christmas! This is one of the busiest times of year at church, and I don’t want you to miss out on anything we have planned.
First up is our childcare event from the Children, Youth, and Family Committee. On Sunday, 12/7, anyone responsible for a child(parents and other caregivers) can drop them off after worship in the cornerstone room. We’ll feed the kids lunch and watch a Christmas movie. Pickup is at 1PM. Everyone’s welcome. There’s no fee but we appreciate any free will offerings!
Our midweek Advent services are on Wednesday nights (12/3, 12/10, and 12/17). Meals are at 5:45PM, organized by various FOG ministries. After that, we gather for Holden Evening Prayer at 7PM. These evenings are a wonderful chance to enjoy each other’s company, to sing, and to hear the gospel. This year, our theme for our midweek sermons is angels.
Our Sunday School Christmas program is also on the horizon. The title this year is “Footprints to the Manger,” adapted by Alicia Campos. The kids’ program will take place in lieu of the sermon on the third Sunday of Advent (12/14) during worship. We’ll be in communication with families about rehearsal and other details!
Last year was FOG’s first Blue Christmas. This is a worship service especially for those having a difficult time during the holidays. Our congregation has experienced a number of deaths this year, so I hope those of us who need comfort will find some during this service. Blue Christmas will take place at 7PM on 12/21, which is also the solstice and darkest day of the year.
You have likely heard about our emergency food drive this month. Even though SNAP has been reinstated, many members of our community are still struggling. We will collect food into the month of December. A list of especially-needed items is in the narthex, along with a QR code to donate to CEAP (the local food shelf) directly. We are also doing other drives like the mitten tree, so please look around the narthex or read the bulletin for info on that.
And finally, we will culminate the season with Christmas Eve services! Join us at 4PM or 10:30PM for special music, the Christmas story, candlelit hymns, and more. A blessed Advent and Christmas to you and your loved ones!
— Pr. Erin Koster

The Lighted Globe:
The Lighted Globe at the back of the sanctuary is for the lighting of a votive candle by anyone wishing to express a particular prayer or hope in this symbolic way. Candles remain lit after all have gone, a visible sign of the prayers of our community of faith "for the whole people of God, and for all people according to their needs."

Holy Communion:
All baptized persons are welcome who believe Christ comes to us in the bread and the wine to bring forgiveness, life, and salvation. Children not yet communing come forward for a blessing. Children receive instruction and usually have First Communion in Fifth grade. We receive the sacrament standing. Grape juice is available.
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Worship with Holy Communion
(Current Season)
Regular Worship
(September - May)
Sundays - In Person and
Live-Streamed
9:30 am
Summer Worship
(June - August)
Sundays - In Person and
Live-Streamed
9:30 am
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Children in Church
Children in Church: At Family of God, as Jesus did, we welcome children of all ages as integral members of the body of Christ, and we welcome the sounds and activity that accompany them! There are a number of spaces and activities designed for children to experience and participate in worship according to their needs (see reverse); we trust families to work out the best option(s) for them and their child(ren) on any given day. We also understand that it takes a village to raise a child. A few tips for engaging families with small children include:
- Greeting/learning the names of the young children who sit near you in worship.
- Offering to read or color with one child during worship, especially if another child in the family is especially fussy or upset.
- Helping preschoolers and elementary-aged kids to navigate the liturgy, locate the hymns, etc. (Children learn to worship by participating!)
- Inviting kids to serve alongside you in worship, as greeters, ushers, etc.
- Recognizing that certain conditions or disabilities don’t present physically, and some children (and adults) may make noises or act in ways that seem strange or upsetting, but are perfectly normal for their situation.
- Celebrating that God put the wiggle in children, and that children’s “mode of being” in worship is intrinsically more vocal and more physical than that of adults.
Busy Bags:
Located in the back of the sanctuary, these bags contains books, crayons, toys, figures, and other things to keep little hands busy and occupied. Children’s Bibles and Bible Story coloring sheets are also available, near the busy bags, and Scribble cards are located in the pew racks.
Family of God Sunday School:
See CYF/Sunday School pages. FOG students (3 years olds - 5th grade) worship with their families through the children’s sermon, then attend FOG Sunday School classes through the end of the service.
Nursery: If your little one simply needs a break, a nursery is staffed through every Sunday worship service for children from birth to 3 years of age.
*In order to comply with Family of God’s Child Policy, parents and guardians are asked to pick up their own children from both the nursery and FOG classrooms rather then, for example, allowing one parent to pick up children from two families. Thanks for understanding.

